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Hello and welcome! We are very pleased that you've found us and look forward to helping you create a stronger, happier, and more secure marriage.For starters, let us be clear that we are not therapists, doctors, marriage counselors, or any other "traditional \ licensed" emotional or behavioral specialists. We do not subscribe to any standard "doctrine" of therapy or counseling. If you are seeking professional counseling or guidance, please understand that while we will be glad to assist you in whatever way we can, we cannot help you with mental illness, or emotional and/or physical abuse. If you are experiencing any of these, we strongly recommend that you seek immediate professional help with a licensed professional in your area. If you need help finding assistance, please see the resources section of our website. Please Register to comment or post. Thursday 08 November 2007 Building A Better Marriage Starts With Yourself  You want to have a better marriage but you don't know where to start? Well you've found the right place! We want to help you and your spouse learn together to have the best marriage possible and we're here to help.The very first step you have to take to have a better marriage is to make the decision to DO IT!! So many people wonder why their marriage isn't as good as it can be but they don't know what to do about it. Well the first step is that simple - BUT don't be misled!! Having a better marriage isn't going to be easy but getting started is. Does your spouse feel the same way you do? You need to know!! So, sit down with your spouse and ask them if they think your marriage could be better. Once you've done that you are on your way already! You are the only two people that can make your marriage better so you MUST talk to each other about it. Communication is the key to a good marriage and the only way to get better at communicating with your spouse is to do it. When you sit down with your spouse and talk about this make the decision together to work at improving your marriage, you two are on the same team here and are the only ones that can change your marriage. Just like jeopardy, contestants can't win alone, they have to have Alex there to ask the questions....well your spouse is your Alex in that without some input from them you don't have a clue about what they want out of your marriage. You have to tell your spouse the things that you think hurt your relationship and you have to be prepared to hear the same from your spouse. Keep in mind that when you hear criticism from your spouse about improving your marriage that the goal is to make it better, so react appropriately. Once this initial conversation has been had, sit down with your spouse and look over the articles posted here on the website, make sure you register so you can post your comments and questions in the forums. We can help you have a better marriage, but you have to put in an effort worthy of a great marriage.
Monday 24 September 2007 Mondays Suck, It's Great Day To Make Your Marriage Better!  Ok so pretty much everyone I know hates Mondays…. Who can blame them really, it’s the consensus of the masses no ?Mondays don’t have to suck entirely though, do something nice for your spouse today, stop on the way home and pick them up what ever it is that is their favorite “Treat” be it a bottle of good wine, or a box of chocolate truffles, just make sure it’s a “favorite”. How is this going to help you, I hear you ask? Simple, your spouse will be expecting you to come home from a Monday of work in typical “happy as a wet cat” fashion, and when that doesn’t happen they will be more than pleasantly surprised! Still don’t see where this applies to you, after all this is for your spouse right? Well that’s simple to, a happy spouse = a happy marriage, and that should equal a happy you! Really, just the fact that you know you made your spouse’s day will take the edge off on a Monday evening, or maybe some of that surprise, who knows maybe your spouse is reading this too and will surprise you. Regardless of that though, having a better,happier marriage takes work, and sometimes it’s the small things that make all the difference, plus you never know how your spouse might thank you for being so thoughtful! If you think you would like your spouse to do this for you today make sure and send this to everyone you know, maybe it will get back to them and everyone can have a better Monday and have a better marriage!
Tuesday 04 September 2007 Todays divorce rates are over 50% Divorce rates are so high today that presidential candidates have started using them as a very effective political weapon.Don't become a divorce statistic for a politician to use in a campaign! Take your marriage to hand and learn the skills required to have a happy, healthy life-long marriage with your spouse today. Fantasticmarriage.com staff are dedicated to helping you get the most out of your marriage through ongoing discussion, careful planning and learned behavior. We want to give you the tools you need to prevent divorce in your marriage. Learning to have a better marriage is not always an easy task; however much of what you can learn will not only be simple, but very enjoyable. Think about it - what could you enjoy more than learning to be even happier with the person that you chose to spend the rest of your life with? Remember how you felt when you both said "I DO!" ? That joy should not end after the wedding day, honeymoon, nor even a few months or years down the road, as is so often the case. Quite the contrary - your marriage can, and should, continue to grow each and every day. Some days the joy I feel in my marriage can eclipse all other emotion and I feel like I just can't show or express how much I love my wife, like nothing can possibly suffice. I want you to learn to feel this way and we are here to share with you how we achieved that and how you can achieve it as well!
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